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February 28 lostno objective
no direction
have to think about what life it is.
spring is coming, the weather get warmer day by day.
come on...
February 23 happy family party!January 31 beautiful snow mani m very happy. because tomorrow i can go home with my father. i received the beautiful photo from my friend.
he made very beautiful snow man.. please have a look!!
in few years, i have not seen so beautiful snow man. because always small snow here.
January 18 happy momentin the snow world... all of white color and silver color full of my eyes.
all of things have been covered by snow. so pure, clear... at that time, i feel so gentle and calm in my heart.
wanna get some pieces of snow to throw it to window..then it will be turn into ice and water....just imagine.........
so beautiful world...i love silver snow world.
January 01 just do it!at the first day of 2008. in the morning, i have to get up at 7 o'clock. because yesterday night i have to meet them,and have lunch together.
but one friend who wanna get away after lunch. because he have to go to work. what a pity.
we have to part at there. in the afternoon. we wanna find more comfortable place to relax. so we go to climb fragrant mountain.
that is second time to do that. blue sky, white clound,green water, dark grey mountain, green pines and trees..we just like nature and wanna touch it closely. many steps we have to climb the steps one by one. untill to the highest altitude of mountain. it is about 557 kilometers.
when we get there, we are so happy and take come fresh air ...so cool.
ihihihi... when we cllimb it, on the road, we have to come on for ourselves..
just do it!!!
you will won!
whatever u do , just do your best! that is very good!
December 11 snowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwsnow
so soft, gentle, lightly snowflakes
they were patting the window in the morning untill i got up.
snowflakes are melting as they reached the ground.
it has light hand for painting
actually snow bright many imagination for our life.
when we reached the flower, it is shed
just like the snow fell in the river, it melt with the water.
November 18 peace of mindPEACE OF MIND! Peace of mind is the most sought after 'commodity' in human life. It appears that most of us are in a state of perpetual restlessness. On analyzing the causes of this restlessness, I have ventured to find for myself ten solutions that need to be followed religiously if we are serious about achieving perfect peace of mind. 1. Do not interfere in other's business Most of us create our own problems by interfering too often in others' affairs. We do so because somehow we have convinced ourselves that our way is the best way, our logic is the perfect logic, and those who do not conform to our thinking must be criticized and steered to the right direction, our direction. This kind of attitude on our part denies the existence of individuality and consequently the existence of God, for God has created each one of us in a unique way. No two human beings can think or act in exactly the same way. All men or women act the way they do because they are prompted to do so by the Divine within them. There is God to look after everything. Why are you bothered? Mind your own business and you will have your peace. 2. Forget and forgive This is the most powerful aid to peace of mind. We often nurture ill feeling inside our heart for the person who insults or harms us. We forget that the insult or injury was done to us once but by nourishing the grievance we go on excavating the wound forever. Therefore it is essential that we cultivate the art of forgiving and forgetting. Believe in the justice of God. Let Him judge the act of the one who insulted you. Life is too short to waste in such trifles. Forget, forgive, and march on. 3. Do not crave for recognition This world is full of selfish people. They seldom praise anybody without selfish motive. They may praise you today because you are rich and have power but no sooner you are powerless, they will forget your achievement and start criticizing you. Moreover, no one is perfect. Then why do you value the words of praise of another mortal like you? Why do you crave for recognition? Believe in yourself. People's praises do not last long. Do your duties ethically and sincerely and leave the rest to God. 4. Do not be jealous We all have experienced how jealousy can disturb our peace of mind. You know you work harder than your colleagues in the office but they get promotions, you do not. You started a business several years ago but you are not as successful as your neighbor whose business is only one year old. Should you be jealous? If you are destined to be rich, not all the world can stop you. If you are not so destined, no one can help you either. Nothing will be gained by blaming others for your misfortune. Jealousy will not get you anywhere, but will only give you restlessness. 5. Change yourself according to the environment If you try to change the environment single handedly, the chances are you may fail. Instead, change yourself to suit the environment. As you do this, even the environment, which has remained unfriendly for you, will mysteriously appear to be congenial and harmonious. 6. Endure what cannot be cured This is the best way to turn a disadvantage into an advantage. Every day we face numerous inconveniences, ailments, irritations and accidents that are beyond our control. We must learn to endure them cheerfully thinking, "God will it so, so be it". God's logic is beyond our comprehension. Believe it and you will gain in patience, in inner strength, in will power. 7. Do not bite more than you can chew This maxim should be always remembered. We often tend to take more responsibilities than we are capable to carry out. This is done to satisfy our ego. Know your limitations. Spend your free time on prayers.This will reduce those thoughts in your mind, which make you restless. Fewer the thoughts, greater is the peace of mind. 8. Meditate regularly Meditation makes the mind thoughtless. This is the highest state of peace of mind. Try and experience it. If you meditate earnestly for half an hour every day, you will tend to become calm during the remaining twenty-three and a half hours. Your mind will not be disturbed as much as before. This will increase your efficiency and you will turn out more work in less time.[If you are a Muslim,perform your Salath's (five times prayer) every day.Salath is more useful than meditation in many ways.] 9. Never leave the mind vacant An empty mind is devil's workshop. All evil deeds start in the mind. Keep your mind occupied in something positive, something worthwhile. Actively follow a hobby. You must decide what you value more - money or peace of mind. Your hobby, like social work may not always earn you more money, but you will have a sense of fulfillment and achievement. Even if you are resting physically, occupy yourself in healthy reading or mental chanting of God's name. 10. Do not procrastinate and never regret Do not waste time in wondering "should I or shouldn't I?" Days, weeks, months and years may be wasted in that futile mental debating. You can never plan enough because you can never anticipate all future happenings. Always remember God has His own plan too. Value your time and do things. It does not matter if you fail the first time. You can rectify your mistakes and succeed the next time. Sitting back and worrying will lead to nothing. Learn from your mistakes but do not brood over the past. DO NOT REGRET! Whatever happened was destined to happen only that way. Take it as the will of God. You do not have the power to alter the course of God's will. Why cry? May God help you remain at peace With yourself and the world October 27 不是悲秋!整个人沉浸在秋的怀抱中,
满眼都是金色 红色 棕黄.. 秋天,给人的感觉异常的清爽! 我爱秋, 爱它的清爽宜人, 它的宽容, 成熟,风度,温情, 让我不得不被它所吸引. 我爱它. 这个季节不是 悲秋! |
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